February 19

this is probably kicking a dead horse but it’s been irritating me the past few days and I can’t keep it in any longer so here goes…

dear females,

WHY DO YOU MEASURE YOUR SELF WORTH BY WHETHER YOU’RE IN A RELATIONSHIP, ENGAGED OR MARRIED?!?!?! To be clear, I have absolutely nothing against marriage, it’s a beautiful thing and represents commitment and love between two people, it’s also like a pair of handcuffs with no keyhole. 

I’m really sick and tired of hearing friends moan and groan about how they don’t have a bf, how they need a man or how they have to be married by such and such age as if their life depended on it. Good gawd ladies have you no self respect? maybe if you weren’t so desperate you would find someone fyi…guys don’t like desperate women and the ones that do are usual creeps and a-holes who end up hurting you more and thus giving you more daddy issues to have to overcome and or deal with. 

If I wanted to be a nagging motherly person I would live with my brothers but that wouldn’t work because they’d drive me insane what with my OCD and all. With that being said, ladies, if you’re in the group who thinks or feels they need to be with someone to be fulfilled or happy or because all your friends are with someone then you need to take a good hard look at yourself in the mirror. You’ll never be truly happy with anyone or anything unless you are happy and at peace with yourself, only then can you find true happiness with others. Pretty deep huh, don’t be hating, I know my stuff and it’s true. I know how great and wonderful it is to have someone around, someone to come home to and spend time with but at the end of the day you have to be able to be happy with who you are, where you are in life and where you’re going then you’ll find someone who wants the same out of life and you’ll make awesome partners. People who jump from relationship to relationship (and I know a good amount of these people) mainly because they don’t want to be or are afraid to be alone. All the single people I know are single because they choose to be single, not because they can’t find someone and quit freaking out ladies, just because you’re 30 or older and don’t have a husband doesn’t mean anything and if anyone says it does then please kick them or slap them or punch them, whatever is appropriate for that time and place because they don’t know anything and they’re stupid. 

no one should ever be judged by whether they have or don’t have a significant other and I’m sick of hearing people doing it. it’s 2013 yo, get with the program and quit being so last century!